Why Camera Anxiety is Totally Normal (And Completely Conquerable)
Let's get real for a moment. Almost every couple I've photographed—and I mean almost every single one—walks into their photo session with some level of nervousness. Those butterflies in your stomach? Completely normal. The worry that you'll look stiff or awkward? We've all been there.
The Truth About Being "Photogenic"
Here's a secret: being "photogenic" isn't some magical talent you're born with. It's about feeling comfortable, being yourself, and having a photographer who knows how to bring out your most authentic moments.
With that being said let's dive deep into the few ways that you can feel and genuinely be confident in front of the camera with little to zero effort!
1. We're Partners, Not Strangers
Before your wedding day, let's connect. Whether it's an engagement session or a pre-wedding coffee chat, getting to know each other removes so much of the unknown. Think of me less as a camera-wielding stranger and more as a friend who happens to be really good at capturing love stories.
2. Movement is Your Best Friend
Forget those stiff, posed photos you might be imagining. We're going to keep things moving! Walk together, laugh, whisper silly jokes. The most beautiful photographs happen when you're not trying to be perfect, but just being wonderfully you.
3. Trust the Process (And Your Photographer)
My process isn't just to take pictures—it's to make you feel comfortable, guide you gently, and create a space where your love can shine naturally. I'll be working with creative prompts, not rigid poses. Instead of "stand here and smile," I might say, "Tell each other your favorite memory together, or run around and play tag."
4. Practice Self-Compassion
Remember: You don't need to be a professional model. You just need to be you—in all your wonderfully imperfect, deeply in-love glory. All the belly laughs, every genuine smile, every tender moment—these are the photographs that will make you remember exactly how amazing it felt to be in the arms of your lover while having them frozen in time.
5. Breathe and Connect
If you're ever feeling nervous, focus on each other. Look into your partner's eyes, Hold hands, embrace each other and Forget the camera exists. Those moments provide genuine connection that can't be "posed", They're photographic magic.
My Promise
If I am your coveted photographer, my most important job isn't just capturing images—it's creating an experience where you feel seen, comfortable, and absolutely beautiful. Your anxiety doesn't stand a chance against genuine connection and a supportive approach.
Natural Posing Techniques: Look and Feel Amazing in Your Wedding Photos
5 Natural Posing Techniques That Actually Work
1. Movement is Magic
Static poses are so 2010. Dynamic, gentle movement is the vibe now! Instead of standing rigidly, we'll create moments that feel and connect as a story:
- Walk together, holding hands
- Slowly dance without music
- Whisper something playful to each other
- Gently sway and laugh
The best photographs happen when you're not trying to look perfect, but when you're simply being your authentic self.
2. The Power of Connection
Forget looking at the camera. Focus on each other. Some of my favorite techniques include:
- Forehead touches that create intimate moments
- Nose-to-nose proximity that sparks genuine smiles
- Holding each other in a way that feels like you
3. Embrace Your Unique Dynamic
Every couple has their own language of love. Maybe you're playful and silly. Maybe you're more reserved and elegant. Maybe you're a mix of both. The prompts i give will celebrate YOUR specific love story.
4. Comfortable Positioning
Comfort is key. Try to find positions that feel natural to you:
- Sitting together with your bodies slightly angled
- Leaning into each other in a way that feels effortless
- Using your environment—a beautiful wall, a scenic backdrop—as a gentle guide
5. The Art of Gentle Guidance
Think of me less as a photographer and more as a creative director of your love story. I'll provide soft prompts that create genuine moments:
- "Tell each other your favorite memory"
- "Describe what you love most about your partner"
- "Run and surprise jump onto your partners back"
Pro Tip: Your Comfort is My Priority
Every couple is beautifully unique. What works for one might feel awkward for another. Your session is a collaboration. Laugh, Experiment, and that can help curate photographs that feel authentically, perfectly you.
